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Joined:1 month  ago
Posts: 2
01/06/2020 8:37 am  

Hi all,

I burned myself two days ago by crawling under a tv tray to pick something up, bumping the tv tray, and knocking over the cup of just boiled coffee that was on it onto my neck and back. I don’t know if I’m “severe” enough to justify coming on this site, but my history of severe trauma and anorexia in combination with the current state of the world, and now this burn on top of it… I need some support coping.

The burn covers about 3/4 of my neck and back. It’s mostly second degree with bits that are deeper than that. I had it debrided for the first time today at the local burn unit, and now it’s covered in silver nitrate sponges until my next appointment in five days.

Apparently nutrition is a huge thing in burn recovery? I’ve been in an anorexia relapse for about 7 months now and am struggling just to eat enough to not lose more weight while it’s healing, let alone get in the recommended amount of protein that they told me my body would need to heal from this. 

I’m finding it challenging to let myself take the painkillers I was given. I’m not entirely sure why, but I’m sure it has something to do with my PTSD and that my mom is addicted to opioids. I got some codeine down AFTER they debrided it because I was shaking and needed to be able to drive myself home (leaning at least a bit back onto the seat…).

I’m so nauseous from the pain, which of course makes eating even harder, and I’m exhausted but SO restless. How do you breathe through the pain to sleep? I can’t imagine having this kind of burn covering the majority of my body.. if that’s you, I wish I could hug you very gently and take some of the pain away.

Anyways.. just thought I’d reach out. 

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Joined:2 years  ago
Posts: 17
01/06/2020 4:22 pm  

Dear Lissar,

I am sorry to hear that you have been burned on your neck and back but am pleased to hear that it is mostly second degree burns which hopefully should heal on their own.  You are right, nutrition is a factor in healing and when I was in hospital I had to drink a lot of protein shakes on top of eating meals to help my burns heal.  I was 43% burns though so quite extensive. If you can face it the protein shakes might be a good solution for you as your skin requires lots of protein to help mend itself…. if you’d like to e-meet some other burn survivors you are welcome to join the weekly on line chat which takes place on wed 7.30-9pm uk time where all size burns new and old meet to help each other through what is a traumatic and difficult experience.  Most burns units have specilalised burns counsellors and it might be worth you speaking to your burn service whereever you are based..

Please don’t hesitate to ask questions as happy to help,



Joined:1 month  ago
Posts: 2
02/06/2020 2:03 am  

Thank you for your response, Polski.

I am going to pick up some high protein shakes tomorrow and see if I can get them down. I’ve also reached out to my eating disorder dietitian for a bit of extra support.

I don’t remember them telling me what % my burns are, but looking at a photo they took and the charts online I’d say it’s right about 10% – mostly second degree, a bit of third.

I will definitely be at the live chat on Wednesday. Thank you for the information and support!


Edited: 1 month  ago

Joined:2 years  ago
Posts: 15
18/06/2020 7:34 am  

Hi Lissar

Just thought I’d write a little post to see how you are doing?  Hope things are improving for you?  As polski has said, it is very important to get the right nutrition to help you heal but understand the difficulties that you are facing.  How are you getting on with the protein shakes?  I was 50% burned when I was 13 in a gas explosion in Spain, whilst on my first holiday abroad.  You can read about my story under:  “Burn Survivors”.  I hope that the weekly chat is helping.  I find I gain something from it every time I am on.  I just wished there was something like this when I was first burned.  There was no psychological help at all, even when I was in the Burns Unit.  Things have dramatically improved and this is great.  Please know that you are not alone and we are all here for each other.  Take care for now.  Shell


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